rule 1:Become genuinely interested in other people
1)"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere ."
2)"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people that you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
3)"Ask questions to other people ,questions that they would enjoy answering ."
reflection:this is one of the six ways to get people to like you .look its not really something you have to do .people dont have to like you .but if you want then get to know the person .you have to ask questions like the color they like and things like that .when you guys try to talk you guys will content more with each other . that how it will make you guys build your friendship .you need to let them talk about them self and it will make you see wow this person and i have many thing similar. and mostly they will ask you questions too.its not hard to ask it is very simple .
i will apply this next time and try to ask questions to find out more about a person .
rule 2:smile
1)"actions speck louder than words ,and a smile says,"i like you .You make me happy .i am glad to see you."
2) "You dont feel like smiling?then force yourself to smile."
3)"it creates happiness in the home ,fosters good will in business ,and is the countersign (witness or indication )of friends ."
reflection : rule #2 is to smile .smiling and a good way to show people they make you happy . it even improves the way you look .if you smile you seem like a kind person .when you smile is like you are stating i'm happy to the world . it is hard but i understand there are day when you dont want to .and it is fine just remember everything is better when you smile . its make you feel good and the people around you .so smile next and you will be happy too .
rule #3:remember names
1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language ."
2)"if you dont remember names,you are headed for trouble ."
reflection: what rule #3 is saying is to make someone like you remember their name .it is very simple to do this .and it will help you get him of the person to like you .our name is the words that we find the most beautiful in all language.it is like an a like you in different words .we remember the name of someone we like easier than someone we dont . and by you remembering his name he would say they i'm someone who is likes but it dont mean you like like him .
rule 2:smile
1)"actions speck louder than words ,and a smile says,"i like you .You make me happy .i am glad to see you."
2) "You dont feel like smiling?then force yourself to smile."
3)"it creates happiness in the home ,fosters good will in business ,and is the countersign (witness or indication )of friends ."
reflection : rule #2 is to smile .smiling and a good way to show people they make you happy . it even improves the way you look .if you smile you seem like a kind person .when you smile is like you are stating i'm happy to the world . it is hard but i understand there are day when you dont want to .and it is fine just remember everything is better when you smile . its make you feel good and the people around you .so smile next and you will be happy too .
rule #3:remember names
1)"A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language ."
2)"if you dont remember names,you are headed for trouble ."
reflection: what rule #3 is saying is to make someone like you remember their name .it is very simple to do this .and it will help you get him of the person to like you .our name is the words that we find the most beautiful in all language.it is like an a like you in different words .we remember the name of someone we like easier than someone we dont . and by you remembering his name he would say they i'm someone who is likes but it dont mean you like like him .
rule #4 :Be a good listener.Encourage others to talk about themselves,
1)"If you aspire to be a good conversationalist,be an attentive listener."
2)"remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his want and his problem than he is in you and your problems .
reflection: what this quote is saying is that the person you are talking with wants to talk to you about themself and you should let them think about it .if a person want talk about themself it means that they want you to know them better .whats a good thing it means they are trying to open up to you it dont means they are selfish for talking about themself . its like you when you meet someone that what you want to do .treat them like you what to be treated .
rule#5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."
reflection: what this quote is stating that we should try to talk to this person about the things he likes . for example if he is into american horror stories that talk about that with him . find something you are both into and talk about that .we all have that least one thing in common with one person . you just have to dig deeper and see what you can find to have a good conversation with that person .
rule#6 :make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature ."(john Dewey) helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
reflection :what this quote is saying is that we should make the person feel important but like you mean it . we all want to feel important it is in our human nature .if we help people feel like they are important it works like magic .when you feel important you feel like when you win something .it makes you feel good and makes you feel like you matter .we have to feel this way if we are important or not because later comes depression and thats unhealthy .we should make people feel important to help them feel down .so next time just try to make someone feel important .
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